Creating a Stable Stepfamily: Offer Love and Grace Freely
My youngest son just came back from his first overnight church camp. He told me story after story of the fun he had with his friends and the memories he made on the campground.
But then, with tears in his eyes, he told me of the many talks they had of what Jesus has done for us and the love and grace He offers us, undeserved.
As we come to the end of our posts on creating a stable stepfamily, I am reminded of the most important element of creating a stable stepfamily: offer love and grace freely to your stepchildren. Even when they don't deserve it.
Stable relationships are formed as we show our stepchildren we love them on good days and bad, offering forgiveness to them, undeserved. It's not easy to do and can only be accomplished through God's strength, but will make a long-term difference in our relationships.
How can you show love and grace to your family this week-end?
Have a happy 4th of July and spend some quality time with your stepchildren!